Here you find discussions about things which are too trivial for many of us - the so called professionals. Stuff of less importance but which plays a significant part in ones life. I ought to mention, it is absolutely my personal opinion and may be critical to few. It is all my experiences and my learning with people, also a comparison of life in the East and West. A bit of philosophy, a bit of management, a bit of emotions expressed and a bit of crap can all be expected.
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Sunday, October 30, 2011
S'he' - Part 1
She has a ‘he’
in her and he is part of ‘she’
Sometime,
mid April 2011, when 'he' has been contemplating on his life and where is it
heading, he made a few firm decisions.
He calls
up The Man and says “Sir, I want to
talk to you something very important”
The Man “Anything serious? Hope everything is
fine”
He, “Nothing
serious, but something very important. I can come down now, if you are free. It
would take 20 minutes, is it okay?”
The Man “Um… yes, please come down. I will
wait for you in my office”
He, “Great!!
Will see you in 10 minutes” …..
He was little nervous and his heart was
pounding a little, not sure of the response to his talks, he was uncertain of
his approach. He was wondering, what if The
Man gets angry and annoyed and yell at him.. not sure of anything, he still
decided to go on and see what can happen….
10 minutes
later……………..
The Man, “welcome sir, how are you?” extended
his hand for a handshake
He, “Thanks
Sir, I am good, you?” shook hands with The
Man, little not so sure of how the conversation will shape up
The Man … “Please come, we shall sit in the
office” and walked firm.. ‘He’ obediently followed him and sat on a chair while
The Man took his chair and a big
table between us….The Man said….”yes
sir, how can I help you?” and smiled…….
He…..
little not so sure on how to start, drank water from his bottle and sat up firm,
he tried to have the best demeanour, to not give away his tension out to The Man in front of him.. with little
firm voice.. “so.. how are things? How are you and your son? What is he upto? I understand
from ‘she’ that he is better now and wants to rejoin my company. How is he now;
is he better and has no issues?”
The Man …”Oh yeah! He is good, I really
should thank you for your advice”, not sure if The Man really was thankful, ‘he’ sat on the chair, trying to listen
intently .. The Man continued “he is
a lot better now, I feel, he getting back to normal”
He..
smiled and said “glad sir, hope, everything is fine….” And got to the point..”Sir..
I have another very important thing to discuss with you. I am not sure, if you
are prepared for this, but I want to say what I think…..What do you think of ‘she’
and me together. I know ‘she’ from the time she has joined my company and I
think, I have started to like her. I wanted your opinion of what you think of
me… “
The Man was neither shocked nor surprised,
his expressions were a mix of a lot of things, mostly trying to hide his true
emotions ………..
‘He’ continued
“Sir… in my life, I have liked very few things and ‘she’ is one of them. I
feel, her upbringing is fine and suits my idea of a typical girl, who I want to
marry. I am not from a rich class, I am from a middle class family who has got
what I always wanted, because I have worked for it”……pause…and he continues “I
would like to marry ‘she’ and I wanted to inform you first before I talk to
her. I know, there would be issues, but I am okay to fight it out. I am not
sure of how much you know about me……..” and started to explain his upbringing
and what all he has done in the life so far
The Man listened to ‘he’ patiently with his
inputs of what he has done in his life and how things have been with him in
life, particularly about his son and ‘she’.
The Man, explained that he was
happy that ‘he’ was talking about ‘she’ to him first and not to ‘she’ directly.
The conversation went on for about half hour that evening between The Man and ‘he’, both trying to
understand how things can be worked out. It was a pleasant conversation, but ‘he’
had a lot of questions about the result
‘He’ was however
proud of his decision of talking to The
Man and said “I wanted to talk to you first and take your opinion, before I
speak to ‘she’. I want you to be aware of it and be okay with it”, for which The Man smiled and thanked ‘he’ and said
“let me talk to my wife on this and will let you know soon”….
‘he’ said…..”Sir,
I want to think about it thoroughly and let me know, because I do not want to
play around in such matters and get disappointed”… not sure of why he said
that. He did not have a negative thought in his mind for the entire
conversation and some amazing confidence that things will work out positively for
him, made him to speak more and more about his family and how things can be
worked out.
The Man in the end said, “sure sir, give me some
time, I shall discuss it with my wife and get back to you” and he asked, “do you
have your horoscope?” for which ‘he’ was not ready and said, “yes I do, only a
soft copy as I don’t carry hard copies J “. ‘he’
then showed the softcopy of the horoscope to The Man and he noted it on some paper and made some calculations
saying “I know how to read horoscopes and I am no master in it, but still excel
on basics” and the conversation went on how the matches are done for a while… The Man in the end came out and handed
over she’s horoscope to ‘he’ and said, “you can also show it to your people and
then get back”
The
conversation ended after 2 hours and The
Man left to his home. ‘he’ was elated with the conversation he has had with
The Man. He was all smiling and happy
about it and went home, only thinking of what had just happened……….
The Man, ‘he’ was
talking to all the time was his ‘would be father-in-law’ :) :) :) :)
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Traffic Violation
I am not sure if this is what I call traffic violation. Imagine this
4 bikes at a cross junction, all willing to cross the junction first. The state was
- one bike had three college kids with no helmets
- the second one had a mobile between his chin and shoulder and riding his bike
- third one is middle aged couple with no helmet on the main rider
- fourth is the person with permissible limits of beer but with a helmet on
Now, think, who could be the fourth person in this junction of traffic violation
4 bikes at a cross junction, all willing to cross the junction first. The state was
- one bike had three college kids with no helmets
- the second one had a mobile between his chin and shoulder and riding his bike
- third one is middle aged couple with no helmet on the main rider
- fourth is the person with permissible limits of beer but with a helmet on
Now, think, who could be the fourth person in this junction of traffic violation
Sunday, February 06, 2011
Re-lived old days
I am very happy today as I re-lived my Sundays of the UK. Cleaned up every corner of the house till lunch, cooked food for myself, watched TV or spent time on net doing things other than work (no wine or beer though), slept and finally closing it with a blog.
I had to spend time by myself for two days as parents and sister's family were out. In the UK, a day all by myself would end up welcoming friends for a binge night out and all the crazy stuff. Here, I waited to welcome my parents to taste the food I prepared :)
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Cross Roads
He was there, at the cross roads, yet again, this time more unsure of what to do. He stands still and thinks, about moral obligations to keep people happy, personal happiness, proving one's point, winning an argument. Very indecisive, he is 'still' and thinking
Welcome back
It has been a while since I have written something on in here. Welcome 'me' again.
I have been missing to capture a few things of my life, the 'he' stories and a lot more trying to focus on things which are 'trivial'
I have been missing to capture a few things of my life, the 'he' stories and a lot more trying to focus on things which are 'trivial'
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)